A parent-teacher conference is a great opportunity for parents to meet with teachers, get to know them better, and collaborate with them to ensure that their child’s academic success. It’s also an opportunity for parents to raise any concerns about their child’s education. With this in mind, it’s important for parents to know what not to do at their child’s parent-teacher conference.
Do Not Interruption
Interrupting a teacher during a parent-teacher conference not only shows disrespect, but it can also derail the conversation. Allow the teacher to finish what they are saying before asking any questions or responding to anything they’ve said. It’s also important to allow the teacher to finish their thoughts and not to interrupt them in an attempt to finish their sentences. Interrupting the teacher can make it difficult for them to get their point across and can make it seem like they are not being taken seriously.
Do Not Make False Accusations
Accusing a teacher of something that is not true is a surefire way to derail a productive parent-teacher conference. When discussing issues it’s important for parents to remain objective and to only make claims that are factual. By making false accusations, a parent is not only disrespecting the teacher, but they are also causing confusion and making it difficult to actually focus on the issue at hand.
Do Not Make Value Judgments
When bringing up issues at a parent-teacher conference, it is important to remember to avoid making judgments of the teacher or their work. No matter how frustrated or unhappy a parent may be, they should strive to be respectful and constructive in their criticism. Making value judgments of a teacher’s teaching style or personal characteristics can be seen as disrespectful and can make it difficult to engage in productive discourse.
Do Not Talk Over Your Child
At a parent-teacher conference, it’s important for parents to remember that the main objective is to discuss their child’s academic performance and any issues they may be having in the classroom. While discussing the issues, it’s important for parents to remember to allow their child to speak as well, and to not talk over them or override what they are saying.
Do Not Focus Solely on Grades
Grades are certainly important, but it’s important for parents to remember to take the time to get to know their child’s teachers and to discuss any other academic or social issues their child may be dealing with. A parent-teacher conference isn’t just a chance to talk about grades, it’s an opportunity to get to know the teacher, ask any questions they may have and collaborate with the teacher to ensure that their child is getting the best possible education.
Conclusion
Parent-teacher conferences can be incredibly beneficial for parents and teachers alike. They provide an opportunity for parents to get to know their child’s teacher and to discuss any issues that may be affecting their child’s education. With this in mind, it’s important for parents to know what not to do during a parent-teacher conference. Parents should avoid interrupting, making false accusations, making value judgments, talking over their child and focusing solely on grades. By following these tips, parents can ensure that their child’s parent-teacher conferences are successful and productive.